Just Because I Don’t Want Kids Doesn’t Mean I’m Not SO EXCITED When You Have...
I want my friends to have all the babies. ALL THE BABIES. Plus I can’t wait to imprint on my friends’ children and mold them in my image. “Does it bum you out that so many of your friends are about to...
View ArticleI Gave Dating Advice To A Man I’ve Secretly Been In Love With For 2 Years
I told him everything I’d wanted to tell him for two years, but managed to twist it around so much it sounded like one friend giving another friend one epic pep talk that would put Dr. Phil to shame....
View ArticleHow to Successfully Flirt With a Ukrainian Woman Online
Introduction To meet your Ukrainian bride and convince her to start a relationship with you, you must be willing to flirt with her successfully. Flirting with a Ukrainian beauty requires that you bring...
View ArticleMy Boyfriend And I Broke Up In Couples Counseling
“I think it’s over.” He didn’t argue. And like that we were in some sort of Woody Allen movie about breaking up in couple’s therapy. I stared at my therapist, sobbing. I knew I was at couple’s therapy...
View Article9 Things I Want To Teach My Daughter About Sexism
A boy said, “No girls allowed. Boys game only.” She looked back at me, smirked and stayed in line. Last year when my daughter and I arrived at school before the bell rang, she ran up to the handball...
View ArticleDating Outside Of Your Religion
Leaving fundamentalist religion is kind of like relocating to a foreign country. I walked away from a very conservative, very strict Christian upbringing when I was 19. Leaving fundamentalist religion...
View Article5 Ways Working in Retail Made Me a Better Person
Nothing like being up to your elbows in Bully Sticks to give you some perspective on life.Nothing like being up to your elbows in Bully Sticks to give you some perspective on life. I will fully admit...
View ArticleCheating Husbands….. are Wives Responsible?
You found out your spouse had an affair, and the indescribable devastation you feel has shredded your emotions and taken over your every thought as you realize you’re married to a cheating husband (or...
View Article3 Reasons It Is Actually Better To Date as a Single Mom
I was a very young mom. A wee 19-year-old when I gave birth to my now 10-year-old-daughter. Her father skedaddled, and there I was alone, with a 6-week-old baby. You could imagine how difficult it was...
View ArticleThere’s No “Friend-Zone” In Bisexual Village
Being friends with the women I’m attracted to is not a duty; it’s a privilege. I don’t hold them responsible for their own non-attraction to me, or privately begrudge them dates with others. When I...
View ArticleWhy I’ll Never Sleep With a Non-Bearded Man Again
OK, OK, so I know this whole beard phenomenon is getting a little out of hand, but it’s for good reason! Today’s bearded bros represent the resurgence of a timeless, polished machismo and I can...
View ArticleHow To Deal With Lack Of Sex Drive In Relationships
When you don’t have that loving feeling as often as you use to, you may want to find out how to deal with lack of sex drive. As a man, your sex drive starts to gradually decline as you get older. Once...
View ArticleWhy Embrace an Old-Fashioned Approach to Dating
We’ve come a long way and so has dating. Lately, relationships are falling apart as fast as they started. Maybe because people rush into them or they are getting tired of others easily. People out...
View ArticleWhat I Have Learned from Dating Older Men
I’m not sure when it started or how; maybe it was my infatuation with grown men in uniform which began when I was a little girl or maybe just the fact that I’ve always been more mature than people my...
View ArticleStrength in Forgiveness
In life, we make choices – some good, some bad. By no means is anyone perfect, but we do seem to aim for higher standards of ourselves. But what happens when we screw up? When others screw up? Do we...
View ArticleBe Kind, but Be Kind to Yourself, Too
So often we discuss the importance of kindness, particularly towards others. Whether we are close to one another or not doesn’t matter, for both those we hold dear and those we do not are often going...
View ArticleThe Fear of Commitment
For the last few years my inner circle has tried to convince me that I have a fear of commitment. I combated these wild accusations with the following argument: “Um, that’s bullshit. Wanna know why?...
View ArticleTen Ways to Hit on a Guy
Ladies, it’s a jungle out there. The dynamics of flirting, dating and relationships have all changed because of social media. We can have a relationship with someone we’ve never even met (thanks...
View ArticleSexism in Nerd Culture
Nerd culture has become more mainstream with comics, books and video games alike being turned into popular movies, but what has not changed is sexism within the community. Sadly, if you walk into a...
View ArticleMy Boyfriend’s Best Friend Is Female AND His Ex, And I’m Fine With It
By facing this sticky emotional stuff head on, and having an ongoing conversation about it, I’ve gone from feeling tense around these women to being able to count them among my friends. When I first...
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