A Dating Guide for Gays to Find “The One”
As a gay man, you’ve probably had your fair share of struggles when it comes to finding your “forever partner.” We don’t blame you: it’s hard out there! Sadly, many guys often run into “slim pickings”...
View ArticleThe 5 Stages of Dating
Attraction Stage one of dating is, of course, the first encounter. You may have locked eyes across a crowded room. They possibly held a door open for you and it led to the exchange of names and...
View Article6 Signs that He’s Cheap
In this blog post I will attempt to save you lovely ladies time, energy and money by identifying six key signs that determine whether or not the guy you’re dating is a cheap skate. What he does: He...
View ArticleWanna Find a Good Man? Simplify Your Checklists!
What do I want in a man? Well, he must be taller than me… and make six figures… and have straight, white teeth… and have a college degree from a ‘good’ school… and have grown up with both parents...
View ArticleDon’t Go to Bed Angry
We’ve all been there before. Your lover does something that pisses you off, you get angry, you passive aggressively decide to deal with it later, and then you lay awake all night thinking about what a...
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Being Too Available
It is in our DNA to always want that which seems the least attainable. The fabulous Christian Louboutin pumps you saw in Vogue, the Hermès travel bag you’ve been drooling over, and even your celeb...
View ArticleThe Four P’s of Dating
As an avid observer of people and their habits (especially those pertaining to dating), I have identified two truths about many women. The first truth is that there are many single women out there who...
View ArticleStand Up to Codependence
I have a friend who is always in relationships. She is never single. There’s always a next lover hanging in the sidelines while she’s breaking things off with the soon-to-be-ex-lover. Every...
View ArticleOffice Romance – Are You Gambling With Your Career?
The office seems to be an ideal place to find romance–and in many cases even more effective than dating websites! According to a very recent survey carried out by www.careerbuilder.com 39% of workers...
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Being Positive
Being positive is definitely one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. It is something that cool people instinctively understand and un-cool people don’t. It is part of the secret...
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How to Develop Humour
Having humor is very important trait in getting good at dating and I would say the three most important traits to being an attractive man would be 1. Confidence, 2. Humour, 3. Positivism Humour can be...
View ArticleHow to Ask Questions Without Interrogating
A common sticking point I help clients with is asking good questions. People tend to fall into the trap of asking a bunch of pointless questions when they meet a new person. Your person of interest...
View Article10 Ways Minimalism Can Fix Your Love Life
According to some people I’m a minimalist. I intentionally limit the number of possessions I own as a way of improving my life. I own between 90 and 100 things– total. I guess I’m okay with the...
View Article10 Ways to Ruin a First Date
Sometimes we focus too much on the right things. What about the wrong things? It doesn’t matter if your Prince (or Princess) Charming, nasty habits will botch your chances at romance. There are a...
View ArticleMind Your Mind: Pleasure vs. Pain
The dating literature makes much of “approach anxiety,” the nervousness capable of killing our interest in a stranger. Imagine your ideal sensory mate; a person who looks, sounds, even smells...
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Is She Girlfriend Material?
You’ve been dating for a little while now, and your friends are starting to ask, “Is it serious? Are you boyfriend/girlfriend?” A longterm relationship seems like the natural progression, but be...
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Improve Your Listening Skills
There’s a big difference between hearing someone and listening to them. Listening is active. Hearing is passive. If you want to succeed in romance you need to exercise your listening muscle. The goal...
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10 Overused Motivational Phrases
Everyone enjoys inspirational phrases. They can give you the extra umph you need to get through the day. But do they really help? Are one-liners you read on Twitter repetitive garbage? This post will...
View ArticleDating Scene and Modern Updates
Gone are the days when high-speed internet was an expensive pleasure, mainly reserved for a select few. Similarly, websites were quite simple and rather primitive. Smartphones had their limitations...
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5 Myths Pickup Artists Believe
When I discovered the pickup artist community it seemed sort of gimmicky and sleazy, and it still does! That’s because a bunch of charlatans and dreamers propagate myths about seduction and reality....
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