Your Move-in Checklist
Many people believe that a couple’s moving in together is the true test of their compatibility. This theory, however, is false. It is possible to predetermine whether or not a couple will enjoy living...
View ArticleTo Rent or to Buy the First-Time Love Nest?
One of the first questions a couple ponders about before moving in together is whether to rent or buy. A couple’s renting allows them no commitment, low payments, with a few restrictions: no pets; no...
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Delectable Drink Date: Dining Indoors
Want the equivalent of a club date without all the expenses of parking, coat check, gas and a new outfit? Seeking that fun date idea that won’t have you facing any lineups in the chilly air outside?...
View ArticleHow To Use A Conversation Piece to Jumpstart Your Social Life
con·ver·sa·tion [ kònvər sáysh’n ] casual talk: an informal talk with somebody, especially about opinions, ideas, feelings, or everyday matters talking: the activity of talking to somebody informally...
View ArticleHow Blogging Gurus Feed You B.S.
How does a man become successful? There are many different ways that a man’s success is measured by today’s society. Some are considered successful if they make millions of dollars. Others are...
View ArticlePeacocking Or Image Building?
The first time I heard this term, it was while reading about the pick-up-community. Peacocking is the act of wearing something completely different and often times ridiculous in order to stand out from...
View ArticleAre You Social Enough?
Imagine the CEO of a huge corporation has a major speech to make to ten thousand employees in the morning. He stays up all night writing notes to prepare his presentation. The next day, he arrives to...
View ArticleIs She Just Too Complex For A Man To Get? Just A Nag?
There is a tremendous pay-off to continuing the “story” that women are mysterious. Both men and women benefit from this excuse. This justification alleviates both men and women from having to take...
View ArticleBahumbug To The Whiny Men
Dear whiny men, There was a time that I used to feel bad for you and could understand why you felt sad and lonely. I know how painful it can be when the holidays roll around and you feel left out when...
View ArticleHow NOT to Go to Your Grave a Virgin
I know an 81-year-old man who has a deep, dark secret. For a long time, I’ve known by the way he talks, acts, and presents himself to others that this man was very unique and different from most guys....
View ArticleMacho Men Versus Women: The Epic Dating Battle
Hey ladies. Come closer. Closer. Now look over there. You see that sexy beast of a man over there? That’s known as a Macho Man. He’s unlike any other type of man you’ve ever known before. Alpha Male?...
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A Cave Man’s Way To Attract Women
Hey CaveMan. We all know you’re responsible for inventing the wheel, discovering fire and teaching other guys how to bash women on the head with a club. You deserve credit for all those accomplishments...
View ArticleWhy Men Are Little Boys
Many women complain about not understanding men and always ask why they act the way they do. The answer is simple and I’ll sum it up for you. Inside each man is a frightened little boy who’d love to...
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Beware of Best Friends?
It’s a story as old as the hills: boy meets girl, falls in love, catches girl sleeping with his best friend. Same thing applies with women: girl meets boy, falls in love, catches boy sleeping with her...
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Boomers: How to Become More Attractive to Women
Cool Older Guys Go Natural I’m a boomer guy in my later sixties, and I’ve addressed aging, as have most of my fellow boomers. What I know with certainty, and I mentioned in the New York Times article,...
View ArticleAssessing Blame
People LOVE to assess blame, especially in this day and age of entitlement. Assessing blame is an easy way to avoid responsibility, an easy way to avoid failure, and something those with weak self...
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Why You Should Never Settle for Minimum Standards
Decades ago, when a woman was asked about what kind of man she’d like to meet, she’d say a doctor or a lawyer or some other kind of accomplished man. She’d list the attributes she wanted in him, things...
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Forget Forever
The message is always there, although it gets worse over the holidays: when you meet a woman and feel intense attraction, it will last FOREVER. If it doesn’t, either you’re a failure OR she...
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Talk, Talk, Talk?
If you’ve been a subscriber for awhile, you know there are two types of people in the world: talkers and doers. Talkers talk a lot (especially about themselves), but when you examine their actions,...
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Make the First Ten Seconds of a Date Count
For you men who always seem to have great first dates, you probably already know this important, unspoken rule. For those of you who always seem to blow it on the first date, I have one very important...
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