Man, Woman and the Significant Other
Infidelity brings with it a wave of pain, hopelessness and despair. Dealing with the aftermaths of an affair can be traumatic, for all the three concerned. Though we have read, seen movies, discussed...
View Article10 Big Life Issues and Movies to Help You Deal With Them (from Criminal Movies)
Heroes aren’t all they’re cracked up to be. They’re braver than us, more honest, courageous, understanding, etc. While I’m sure most of us have at one time or another wished that John Wayne would swoop...
View ArticleThe Nature of Identity
Let me ask you a question: who are you? “Me?” I hear you say, “Well I’m such and such, I’m this many years old, my likes include a, b, c.” Yes, that’s all well and good. I’m tremendously happy that I...
View ArticleLove – The Pet Shop Boys Way
Music is a universal constant; there’s a reason that, when NASA sent out the Voyager probe to see what’s out there in this huge, possibly empty galaxy, music was one of things that they included on the...
View Article10 Ways To Stop Missing Him
What do you do when he mistreats you, makes you feel awful about yourself, but he still has a hold on your heart? All the time, people say, “Move on. He’s causing you pain? Let him go.” But we all know...
View ArticleHow to Find the Light in an Interfaith Marriage
You’re an Irish Catholic school teacher who falls in love with a Jewish cab driver/aspiring novelist at a New York City bus stop. Naturally, complications ensue. This is the premise of “Bridget Loves...
View ArticleCope with Affair Obsessing
Upon learning of your spouse’s affair, you’ve suffered enormous, life-altering news. You can and will heal from the damage the affair revelation has caused, but it’s difficult to believe that’s...
View ArticleThe Company You Keep
If you look into the life of successful people (define success in any way you want to) you will usually find that one of the reasons they are successful is because they are surrounded and supported by...
View ArticleA Loving Break-up
“There are times when two people need to step apart from one another, but there is no rule that says they have to turn and fire” ~Robert Brault – Writer Very few people are able to traverse the end of...
View ArticleHow To Stop Negative Thoughts
I believe this is an area that many people question. The simple answer to how do we stop negative thoughts is we don’t. I am sure that you realize that the more you try to stop something the more...
View ArticleAllowing Others to Be Perfectly Themselves
“The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them” – Thomas Merton –...
View ArticleHooking-Up on Facebook, Twitter and Other Social Media Sites
If you had the chance to hook-up with your high school or college sweetheart would you? Seems that many people are reconnecting with their love interests from high school and college via social media...
View ArticleLosing Oneself to Fit In – The Procrustean Bed
I came across the term “Procrustean Bed” last night, a term that I was not familiar with. I have come to learn that “Procrustean Bed” or Procrustean method are terms that are used to illustrate the...
View ArticleAre You Still Hoping for Better Past?
“Forgiveness is the release of all hope for a better past” – Buddy Wakefield – Poet via Rev. Kathianne Lewis of Seattle Let that statement roll around in your mind for a moment. What it says is...
View ArticleThe Single Most Toxic Relationship Element
There is a toxin that can seep into your relationship, and before you even know what’s happening, it corrodes and eventually destroys your relationship. Of all the potential relationship toxins out...
View ArticleForgiveness in Marriage: A Different Kind of Forgiving Your Spouse
Has your spouse done something so horrendous that it has ripped your marriage apart and made you question the very foundation of your relationship? Are you in a place right now where you are wondering...
View ArticleWhat’s In a Dating Profile Username?
When online dating you often have no idea what you are getting into. What’s in a name? According to Shakespeare, a rose by any other name smells just as sweet. But ask anyone named Maxie or Harry...
View Article6 Secrets for Dating Success for Workaholics
So you’re a workaholic, and you’ve just realized that you need a dating life. Don’t worry – you are not alone. The sad reality is that a lot of individuals find themselves buried in their work today,...
View ArticleWhy Men Can Be Fat, Bald, Dress Badly and Still be Damn Sexy
A guest post by Mark Clemens I was discussing the subject of how men and woman differ when dealing with their individual body image(s) the other day. I was rather intrigued how woman are taught to view...
View Article5 Things Men Naturally Know and Woman Should
1. Ignorant people cannot be helped and they do not matter. First let us clarify who “The Ignorant” are for they deserve their own special classification and proper noun status for all the power women...
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