Solution: Take off your Tiara “Princess” and stop looking for your prince, he does not exist. If you are stuck in fairytale land waiting for that kiss that changes your life and the man that makes everything perfect, you should prepare for a long life of suck!
Now I am not saying there are not amazing men in the world, there are, and you deserve to find one, but guess what?!… You are never going to find him by dating the douches of the world and hoping they will fall in love with you one day. Especially after they have basically told you, in a million different ways, that they are not ready for anything serious.
Usually what that translates into is “they don’t want anything serious WITH YOU”. Ouch… I know, but it is true my friends. Even the biggest dick face of them all, after finding the right girl, will fall in love and settle down. Not to say he won’t maybe cheat on her, but he will at least take the relationship to a level you can never expect him to take it with you.
A man is out there who is ready to treat you the way you deserve to be treated, no he will not complete you, or make your life what it is supposed to be. You have to manage your own life, then when you meet a man who compliments what you have accomplished and meshes with the goals you are working towards, that is when the magic happens.
But you will not SEE him, even if he is standing right on front of you screaming “here I am” until you open your eyes and become realistic about what a man is and is not. You should take a good look at yourself in the process and realize who you are and most importantly who you are not. You are not a Princess and no man is going to be your savior. Save yourself and find a man who loves, supports, adores, and protects you.
Some worldly advice from Oprah!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t “be friends.”
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
Sometimes everything you think you want, is all wrong!
You should always feel like you are an amazing catch and if a man mistreats you, he should be gone and it will be his loss. Unless of course you are a total bitch or a cheating doucher yourself. In that case, good luck in life whore! Now if you are a good woman and If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, remember that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one and take care of your own hearts….
If you want to kiss a bunch of Frogs, that is fine, just don’t expect them to transform into anything more than what they already are and don’t get mad when one of them gives you “warts” (GROSS)! Just don’t waste too much time with Mr. Wrongs, when Mr. right could be around the corner, waiting for you to open your eyes and become available for something real!